be a smart EQ controller !!!

If you do not have high IQ, please do have a high EQ !!!

EQ meas Emotional Intelligent !!!

EQ is very important because it would influences how you life on...

It reflects on your personality and the way how you control your emotion and many more...

I am not really a good EQ controller but yet I am still not that bad to control my own emotion, I could say my EQ is in average.

Everyday we met difference people, we have been seeing many kind of people and how they control their EQ. I personally like those people who has a calm emotion, always take things easily, does not because of a single little thing and start to lose themselves.

An EQ expertise, should bring their smile when faces difference kind of people. Able to talk with a pleasant mood and well handling with difference kind of people and solve the problems. No matter what things happened...

Especially those people in service front lines, our job is bringing good services with a great attitude. So that it will just give your customers an great impression and come back again for the next business.

In facts, it sounds so "fake", everything is acted and just to make yourself to look good. But this is how a high EQ expertise will do.

high EQ expertise = fake people ??? (it depends on how you think off)

It's good to be honest, but not all the time. Cause it might hurts a lot of people. Find a proper way to express your feeling, if not keep it inside your heart forever !!!

If you would like to give vent to , please do it in your own room , so that your anger will not spread to other innocent people.

Always remember they are innocent, think off those people position and imagine if you're the person, how will you think about?

The way how I solve my problem is go sleep and wake up, believe the thing will be alright when it comes to the end, try my best to make the things fine !!!

Enjoy and "cry" during the processing time ?? =p

This is the website that could test the EQ:

http://www.ihhp.com/quiz.php

or

Google it !!! XD


Ps: Be a smart person, is doing a good things with a good mood.

Always Pray hard and work hard.

happy new year

Happy Chinese New Year ~

wish all my friends & readers Happy New Year ~

Stay healthy, pretty, handsome, smart & all the wishes cum true ^^v

幸福是圓的，不容易背

西藏人說：幸福是圓的東西，不容易背。」
她說，「所以任何可能 　帶來幸福的東西，哪怕是一丁點，都要更加珍惜，呵護於手中。

『你從哪裡來？』、『你現在在哪裡？』、『你要往哪裡去？』
我一口氣問了自己的靈魂三個問題。

「不管輪迴了多少次，你總是問相同的問題。」
我彷彿聽見靈魂的回答。
『那是因為你從來不給答案。』我說。
「你執著了。」靈魂說。
『為什麼？』我問。
「如果問題根本不存在，又何必要有答案。」靈魂回答。

From -Anonymous

“幸福是圓的，不容易背”

西藏一個嚮往已久的地方
希望自己有一天能夠踏上這片聖神的土地
感染一下佛家的真理
當地人對佛的尊崇

如果有那一天
我更希望能夠帶著我的家人一同前往
圓了爸爸的願望
已最簡單的方式來回報他對自己的愛
還記得那一天爸爸對我說的話
他說：寶啊，等你畢業賺了錢帶爸爸去西藏吧！
我說：好啊，可是要給我好幾年的時間啊!
他說：好幾年的時間，我怕我老的走不動了...
我心里暗暗的祈禱：神明啊，佛祖啊! 求你們保佑那一天請不要來的太遲，好讓我圓了我爸對我所說的夢想.

我爸常說：幻想是幸福的，但現實是殘酷的。
所以偶爾的幻想能讓自己開心一下有何不可？

愛，月老 《有些事，一萬年也不會改變》

最近剛從朋友那裡借來了幾本九把刀的書

其中一本看的我眼淚都快飆出來了

那是。。。。"月老。the God of Love"

:. 從前從前，有一個故事

故事里，男孩遇見女孩

喜歡他，追求她，就跟其他的故事一樣

只是，他在求婚的那一刻被閃電集中，再醒來已在地府。

故事沒有結束，只因為....

有些事，一萬年也不會改變....:

在書里面，就寫到這一段話，我覺得很對

”紅線只是巨大強化兩人緣分的工具，相戀與否還須看兩人真實互動決定”

女孩手上曾被系上無數條的紅線，就連丘比特的最引以為傲的"宙斯神弓"都無法射到女孩

可見得她的愛情信念有多強啊!!!

不是每個人都能做到對愛情始終如一的，

書里的主角是不被愛情祝福的對像，

所以命運跟他們開了一個天大的玩笑~

其實不止在書裏面，

就連在真實的世界中，不被祝福的愛情是很難維持的

面對他人的冷言冷語，

有多少人可以做到看不見，聽不到的地步?

那些所謂的背景聯姻對我而言都是bullshit!

硬拆散別人的愛情人，go die!

就算在怎麼不喜歡，嘗試接受會死啊，笨！

可以在一起多久是他們的事，

愛怎樣也不關自己的事吧？

所以除了嘗試接受，就還是嘗試接受！

被祝福的愛情才叫愛情~~~

愛情的世界里，有時候表示大方才算gorgeous!!

《月老》的男主角爲了保護心愛的女孩

不顧一切危險也要讓女孩得到找到自己的歸宿

這...才叫愛吧？

后來，

男生在要與女孩分離之前唱了一首屬於他們的歌：

歌詞：

《走來了，輕輕走來了，在我的生命裡，上天送我一份大禮，那就是妳，輕輕地偎在我的懷裡，我要對妳說聲，老婆，我愛妳。　
　
走來了，細細走來了，望著妳的眼睛，傾聽著妳的聲音，讓我飛，飛到了神奇的世界，好想緊緊抱住妳。

唱著妳的歌，唱著妳的歌，回憶吊橋的畫面，將妳的手，輕輕地溫暖我的胸口。　
　
喜歡妳的眼，喜歡妳的體貼，喜歡妳在身邊的感覺，喜歡妳的柔，喜歡摸摸妳的小小耳朵。

有妳的故事，有妳的一個我，就在這裡再唱一首歌，幸福的背後沒有最終的溫柔，就讓我鼓起勇氣向妳親口說...

嫁給我吧，嫁給我吧，妳這個幸福的傻瓜，把妳的一生都托付給我吧，頂多只是嫁給了神經病了罷，　
　
嫁給我吧，嫁給我吧，把妳的手輕輕慢慢地向我遞過來吧，
　　
家裡的廚房不要一直空著啦，阿苦也要有人來陪牠吧，就這樣嫁給我吧！

嫁給我吧，嫁給我吧，妳這個幸福的傻瓜，喜悅在我的眼眶裡打轉，難道妳都看不出來嗎？　　

嫁給我吧~~~ 》
　
。。。。。

最喜歡歌詞里那句： 幸福的背後沒有最終的溫柔。

因為有終點的溫柔，沒有幸福可言~

:. 有些愛情，在死後依舊永恆。

有些愛情，在死後才開始。

去吧。我最愛的，別人的新娘子。.:

.......

如果有興趣的朋友或許可以上網找看這本書

因為它真的贊哦！

睡覺的時間到了，

晚安！

又是新的一天新的開始~

再接再厲把剩下的幾本書給看完吧！

哈！

九把刀，你厲害的連我都怕啊！

哈！！

HomE ❤

I cannot wait to go home!!! home oh sweet home~~

Pontian, Johor, Malaysia.

A small fishing village with tranquil life.

A small dot to be found in the Johor map.

A place where I have born.

A place where I have grown.

A place where All my beloveds are stay..

A place where it's full of my memories

A place where it's full with peace

A place where it's full with happiness

A place where it's really important and sweet for me...

A place where MY HOME IS ~

I miss everything there.

The people !

The food !

The scenery !

The life !



I miss home, always ~

no matter how far am I,

which border ,

which country,

It's still a place I love the most & where my heart has lost to... ❤

Happy Birthday to Myself

Happy Birthday to myself again n again...

365days more again to count down 4 it...

It was really a special bdy.

Even through there wasn't have a big birthday party ...

But i Do received a lot of wishes from my friends...

Especially the "power of social networking - FaceBook " , more than 100 friends wished me !!!

And of cz the most important people in my life, My dad ( nvr expected he would wish me & stil rmb my bdy ), my 2 sisters & brother !!!

Moreover, I tried something that i wana try for vry long - Giant Cup Milk Tea !!

Had a great 3D movie with my dear friends Alice & Fandi - Owls !! (previous year they bought me to watch a stupid movie & end up I sat under the chair , cz to0 scary for me -catacombs) but luckily this year, the movie was impressing me !!!

Had a lunch & dinner with my dear friends.

1st time received a red packet frm friend's mum & also a bracelet frm here as well...

happy happy n reali happy !!!

Wat is Tourism Management ?

So far, a lot of people know that, I am a student who studied in Taylor's University College and under tourism management course..

No to doubt, there's still many people do not understand what are we studying about. When people think about Tourism Management, definitely will link it together with tour guide!!! Like we study so hard and just to become a tour guide!! At the very beginning, I was be very patient to explain what are we doing/studying and it's not everything related with become a tour guide. But now I am so frigging lazy and irritating when comes to explain.

Yes, indeed in tourism management we did learn about tour guiding, but it's just a small part of our course structure. A real tour guide has to have a tour guide license, but we don't have it. If I would like to become a tour guide then I must spend at least 3-6months to attend the course and get the license outside of the school . If I really just wanted to be a tour guide, then I don't need to study for so many years and spent so much of money. All I need to do is just attend a tour guide course, pass the exam and get a license, that's it! Therefore, again I need to clarify some facts, I am not just want to be a tour guide but more than what a tour guide can do. Perhaps, one day I'll just go for the course, get the license and become a professional tour guide but not for now.

Moreover, tourism management is actually quite a flexible course, every tourism student has the choice to work in different market fields. In theory side, we did learn about management, so we can work in management side, no matter what company it is. (of course, it's better to link with Tourism field). In practical, we did learn about tour guiding, events management, some hotel skills and etc.

During my past training, I have been chosen to work in a resort. At first, I worked as a waitress. Second, I became a management trainee in a hotel & resort corporate office. Third, I worked again in a resort at Maldives, as a management trainee as well, but sometimes I would help the resort front desk and also embodiment into a waitress or a resort guide. My friends were wondering why did I choose resort / hotel as my internship placement? The reason are actually very simple.

1. I like to play and I would like to try something different.
   
2. My senior always share their training experiences with us. The feedback from them to work in a travel agency was only one word could describe - BORED. So immediately, they cut off my mind to choose travel agent. ( although it might not be very true, but as a normal human being, it'll definitely influence my decision making)
   
3. I wanna proof that, as a tourism student is NOT ONLY can work in travel agent / become a tour guide (those are typical thinking). Thus, I trained in a resort/hotel.

Actually, my sisters are not really agreed if i work in hotel industry. I still remember, my sister ever warn me that:" U better don't choose hotel industry for your future career! you're a tourism student, you should work somewhere that is related with your course studied. " That time, I was quite disappointed when my sis said that, cause she could not understand me also.

For those who may concern, now I would like to analyse what are the differences between hotel student and tourism student in Taylors College. Basically, we are learning the same management theory, like law, accounting, finance, marketing, HR and etc. The differences are:

• A hotel student have learn F&B, housekeeping, kitchen, food science & etc.
• A tourism student have learn tour guiding, trip organizing, history, geography & etc.

And when the student decided to take degree course, there's more than 80% same course structure for both studies.Hence, a lot of hotel student will change their course into Tourism Management. That's why I always said that, our course is very flexible, I can work in different industry, like event, airlines, hotel, travel agency and so on.

Maybe you will think that, I seems like very impressed with hotel industry and why not I just choose to study hotel management. hahaha... Actually, another reason cause me to choose tourism management is because I will have more chances than others to go travel outside of Malaysia. Taylor's College stipulate or offers a very attractive condition, all student under tourism management will have the chances to organise the trip to different countries. I experienced organise the tour to Pahang rompin & Cambodia during my diploma. After that, I did organise another tour and went to Turkey this year 4/2010. And if I success to pass my this semester, then I will have another chance to go France next year.

(Rompin Tour Poster)

(Sunrise at Rompin Pahang Sommerset Resort)

(Rompin Pahang Sommerset Resort)(Rompin Pahang Sommerset Resort)(DT 28 Regional Tour - Cambodia)(Angkor Wat - Cambodia :. Stairs to Heaven.:)

(7 wonders - Cambodia)(7 wonders - Cambodia)

(BDT 31 - International Tour - Turkiye)(Turkiye)

(Turkiye)

Most of my friends are very envy me have the chance to travel so many places, but if my course did not offers those conditions, I don't think I can go anywhere. So I should be thankful & appreciated. Of course, at the same time I need to pay all my efforts to finish my course and it's not easy. Anyway, I know everything will surely have it's difficulty.

Last but no least, we are the same body (hotel & tourism), it's just our major is a little bit of different. No matter, what would I be for the future, the only thing I can say is : "tying no harm". I just wanna gain more experiences to stand at the future market field no matter it's in tourism or hotel industry. =)

I am just who I am ^^v

Quotes: tourism & hotel industry is together born with the same mother. Both of them couldn't separated. Without tourism, there's no hotel existed. Without hotel, tourism is completely untenable. - SiewTing